I often come across couples where one or the other manages the family financials. We fall in this category as well. I am a personal finance junkie and my wife has little interest in it - so I end up managing most of the finances for our family. To keep my wife in synch, we do the following:
- First, I try to consolidate our accounts to as few as possible. To this end we have done a few things: rolled over prior 401K accounts into a single IRA, moved all investments into 2 brokerage accounts, and closed some bank accounts that we were not using. However having a small number of accounts is not easily achieved. We still end up with a handful of accounts: I have a 401k and a stock grant account at work, a traditional IRA which has roll over from previous 401Ks, we each have a Roth IRA, one 529 account for our kids, one checking/savings account with one of the large banks, two online savings account with a high yield bank (we could go for one but I do not want to break the CDs that are in the other), one brokerage account (in which we do regular investments). We also have savings accounts for our kids in online banks and are planning to open up brokerage accounts for them. So we can reduce the number of accounts but cannot get to a few accounts.
- Next, we create a list of all our accounts every year with account information and balances. We also add to the list our life insurance information (through work and outside), active credit card accounts, mortgage account and different frequent flyer accounts. For each account we list our account number, online access ids and passwords, and balances that we have. We keep this list in a safe place that my wife knows how to access.
- We also have a will that defines custody for our kids and beneficiaries for our accounts.
Here is the template that we fill out every year. http://mtgoyal.googlepages.com/Accountinformationshell.xls
Please share things that you are doing to keep your family in synch on finances. Comment on this blog or write to me at tgoyal@hotmail.com.